How to Network With Clinical Instructors Without Feeling Awkward

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By NurseSavvy Editorial Team

Clinically reviewed by David Zimmerman · RN · MSN, University of Arizona · BA in Education, Siena College

Networking in nursing school is not collecting contacts or asking every nurse for a job. It is making your work visible, being useful, and staying connected to the people who have actually observed you learn.

What instructors can credibly say about you

The strongest references describe behavior: you prepared, noticed a change, accepted correction, communicated with a family, followed through, or improved across a rotation. Give instructors enough consistent behavior to remember. One dramatic conversation cannot replace eight reliable clinical days.

The three-conversation sequence

  1. Explore: “I liked today’s patient population. What should I pay attention to if I’m considering this specialty?”
  2. Act: follow one suggestion, learn the topic, and report back briefly.
  3. Ask: near the end of the rotation, ask whether they would feel comfortable serving as a reference or suggesting a next contact.

Use a specific, easy request

“Can you get me a job?” creates pressure. Try: “I’m targeting pediatric new-grad residencies this spring. Would you be comfortable giving feedback on what I should strengthen?” A good conversation may lead to an introduction, but the advice itself is already valuable.

Follow up like a future colleague

  • Send a short thank-you within a day or two of the rotation ending.
  • Name one thing you learned from them.
  • Share a brief update when you apply, graduate, or pass the NCLEX.
  • Ask before listing anyone as a reference and provide the job description and your current resume.

If you are early in the program

You do not need a target specialty yet. Ask instructors what strengths they see in you and which settings would let you test those strengths. The relationship can grow while your specialty preference changes.

Bring sharper questions back to clinical

Build a curated plan for the specialty you are exploring, then use it to identify the assessments, meds, and priorities worth asking about.

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